Hehehe... Kesiangan! Jadi ga ikut senam deuh. Heuhaueiahuei.... Heran deh, direktur gue apal bener yak ma gue klo gue ga ikut senam. Tapi klo gue ikut senam, ga diapa2in. Hehehehe. Badung ;p Pagi-pagi pusink gitu gue, kyak ga napak deh hari ini. Tapi lsg bangun pas abis minum capuccino. Huaaahhhhh lama2 bisa keracunan caffein nih otak gue. Tapi gpp deuh, otak gue kan isinya cuma sedikit hauihaueihuiehi...

My Curly One...I Miss U So...

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Love.. a Chance or a Choice

When we meet the right person to love when we're at

the right place at

the right time, that's chance.

When you meet someone you're attracted to, that's

not a choice.

That's chance.

Being caught up in a moment (and there's a lot of

couples who get

together because of this) is not a choice. That's

also a chance.

The difference is what happens afterwards. When will

you take that

infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing

attraction to the next

level?

That's when all sanity goes back, you sit down and

contemplate whether

you want to make this into a concrete relationship

or just a fling. If

you decide to love a person, even with his faults,

that's not a chance.

That's choice.

Then you choose to be with a person, no matter what,

that's choice.

Even if you know there are many people out there who

are more

attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate, and

yet, you decide to

love your mate just the same, that's choice.

Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by

chance.

But true love that lasts is truly a choice.

A choice that we make.

Regarding soul mates, there's a beautiful movie

quote that I believe is

so true about this: " Fate brings you together, but

it's still up to

you to make it happen."

I do believe that soul mates do exist.

That there is truly someone made for you. But it's

still up to you to make the

choice if you're going to do something about it or

not. We may meet our soul

mates by chance, but loving and staying with our

soul mates is still a choice we

have to make.

We came to the world not by finding someone perfect

to love...

BUT to learn how to love an imperfect person

perfectly...